
[Jardin du Luxembourg, Paris; 5/2/07; click to view larger]
Paris is a bustling city. When I was there in early May, in addition to the city's residents there were throngs of tourists waiting to get in to various sites. We avoided some of the major attractions, except to walk nearby - Notre Dame, the Eiffel Tower, the Louvre - I had no interest in waiting in interminable lines. Montmarte was the most crowded place we went and I couldn't wait to get out of there. My friend J said she loves being in crowds. I don't think it was only the crowds that bothered me - the Metro was crowded, but still interesting to me. Crowds of tourists and tacky gift shops were the combined irritant at Montmarte.
It's also noisy in the city. We stayed on a very quiet street, with shops but no nightlife. Still there was the occasional motorcycle revving down the narrow canyon of the street at night, or someone talking loudly (somehow less distracting when it's in French at least) on their way from a bar to home or elsewhere. At 4:00 or so every morning a truck would clang open its metal doors and make deliveries to the boulangerie next door. One morning the garbage trucks came before dawn. After a few nights of intermittent sleep in the living room on the sofa bed, J let me switch with her and sleep in the interior bedroom. It was definitely quieter during the night, but early every morning a construction crew arrived to chip and chisel the walls of the interior courtyard off the bedroom. What can you do?
Anyway, I knew from past experience that going to a big city would mean a certain amount of overload. As much as I love all the culture and stimulation that a city offers, I was going to need an antidote somewhere.
I found it at the Luxembourg Gardens, a beautiful, quiet park, its visitors as well behaved as the neatly trimmed orchard at one end. We ambled slowly around the pool and gardens in the sunshine and eventually settled on a shady bench in a far corner near a statue of Silenus, father of Dionysus, have a jolly drunken (albeit silent) time with his satyr friends. It was a lovely spot and refreshed us both before we got back on our tired feet (we walked for hours every day in Paris) and headed home to the apartment.

[Triomphe de Silene, Jardin du Luxembourg, Paris; 5/2/07]
As some of you may know, I started a blog a couple of years ago called The Sensitive Traveler, which I intended to be a place to compile ideas and tips and stories for those of us who are sensitive but love to travel. Unfortunately, since I took my full-time job last year I haven't had time to keep it up. But I still live it, whether traveling abroad or just traveling through everyday life. So I'll keep that site up and add to it whenever I have time or inspiration. As always, I welcome your own tips and recommendations for favorite oases wherever you find them.